Spirit of the Enneagram Week Two Materials (May 2020)

Please know, these weekly materials are not assignments or homework. They are resources to use along your journey of personal growth. We do encourage you to utilize the forum pages to build a community within your enneastyle. Each Enneatype now has an expert moderator available on your forum page. Be sure to take advantage of this one-on-one feedback, and share your questions along this journey of self-discovery.

Week Two

Challenge:

Choose one best practice listed at the start of your forum page (and in the PDF of Richard’s PowerPoints) and commit to it for a week. Share your experience on the forum page.

Exploring the Resources:

This week we are examining the concept of wings and their influence on your enneastyle-

Website Resources:

Integrative 9: Wings, Lines, and integration

The Enneagram in Business: Enneagram Theory / Enneagram Wings

Books:

Honest Enneagram  – April 14, 2020 by Sarajane Case

Find a way to bring out the best in yourself with this heartfelt, informative, and approachable guide to all things Enneagram.

The Enneagram personality system consists of a spectrum of nine personality types. Based on the hit Instagram account, @enneagramandcoffee, this book is an introduction to the Enneagram itself, along with information about each type. With the feeling of your best friend telling you about the Enneagram and beautiful illustrations mixed in with the writing, this book is digestible and engaging for new and seasoned Enneagram fans.

Video:

Wings of All 9 Enneagram Types | Your Enneagram Coach

Perhaps you’ve discovered your main Enneagram Type and started digging into your Core Motivations and path to growth. The next step is to discover your Wing! Everyone is a blend of their main Type and the two Types directly adjacent to it on the Enneagram. For example, a Type 2 will also demonstrate several of the characteristics of both a Type 1 and a Type 3. We use both our adjacent Types to some degree, and each number brings a unique flavor to our personalities. You can think of wings like salt and pepper that enhance the flavor of a beautifully cooked filet mignon (your main Type)! Most of us gravitate to one of our adjacent Types more than the other, and that’s called our Wing. This is one of the reasons you may know two people of the same Enneagram Type who think and behave very differently. I’m a Type 9 with a strong 8 wing. I notice myself exhibiting Type 8 characteristics when I passionately protect the vulnerable and help others gain more self-awareness, and when I’m bold and assertive. My 8 qualities motivate me, and make me a force (both good and bad) to be reckoned with at times! You may have heard people talking about their wings, but maybe you didn’t have a firm understanding or know how to use this knowledge as a tool for growth. I’m here to help! In this series, we’ll dive into the way each Type’s Wing influences their thoughts, words, and actions. I hope these Enneagram insights will lead you to more understanding of the way you were intricately created, accelerating your transformation and freedom. *Sources: The Enneagram Institute and Elizabeth Wagele ⠀ Website: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourenneagr… Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/YourEnneagra… Time Stamps: Type 9 – 15:39 Type 8 – 14:04 Type 7 – 12:30 Type 6 – 10:44 Type 5 – 9:00 Type 4 – 7:28 Type 3 – 5:34 Type 2 – 4:00 Type 1 – 2:44

Poem:

“The journey of reinvention is one of raw emotions
Emerging from dormancy
Surprising as a paper cut
Overwhelming as a hailstorm
One part vulnerability
One part rage
One part surrender
Uncomfortable
Unfamiliar
Unsure
Fearful
Alone
Damaged
Broken
And finding a new Self
Slowly
Different
Healing
Humble
Present
Open
Longing
Free”
― Dave Rudbarg

Quote:

“Self-acceptance is a way of viewing oneself compassionately, without condemnation or justification. It is a starting point in life which makes other things possible. It celebrates the fullness of joy of being alive and of being who we are: accepting ourselves, however, does not mean embracing our neuroses or bad habits and celebrating them as if they were virtues. On the contrary, self-acceptance involves loving ourselves enough to accept painful truths about ourselves. . . . Self-acceptance is, at its simplest, the experience of one’s self, here and now, as a complete human being, with all the glories and problems that condition entails.”
― Don Richard Riso, Personality Types: Using the Enneagram for Self-Discovery